Wednesday, June 29, 2005

Be cool

Some guys are born cool. I mean they have this laid-back 'shit me not' aura about them that it's almost impossible to ruffle their feathers. I remember seeing John Travolta in 'Get Shorty' and think - now here's a guy I'd love to be like. Not his character of a gangster, but his personality. And that line from Rene Russo summed it all up - 'Not a worry in the world'. Having said that, I ask this of myself occasionally - Are you smart enough? Have you sometimes felt like kicking yourself for not doing the 'smart' thing? How many times have you thought of a smart retort - the next day? I guess, smartness means different things to different people. Smartness also IS different things to different people. Street smartness, sophisticated smartness, smart-ass smartness, smarting smartness...phew! When I was in college, I used to be in awe of some guys who pushed all the right buttons. They could talk about anything under the sun. They were suave, they had the right attire and they spoke in a way that made others flock to them. 'Can I become like them?' I'd constantly wonder and hope. Things aren't very different now. I still admire guys who can hold a conversation about anything. Anything at all. Politics? Oh yeah, they can write reams of email analysing, dissecting the system and even throwing in a couple of liners on how the country could be better run, for good measure. Sports? If only our sportsmen knew these guys existed, there'd be no dearth of right strategies and winning concepts. Movies? Moviemakers would stand in line to sign these guys up for a winning formula.

But it's all about the grass being greener on the other side, I guess. We feel that some guys have all the fun. They lead lives to die for, their workplace is always fun-filled. Their...well, you get the idea. But I've learned over the years that there might be others thinking the same about us. And that's comforting, isn't it?

7 comments:

shub said...

dunno bout grass being greener...but I'd rather not be with a Mr.Know-it-all for all topics under the sun!! That way I'd never get in a word I guess! Oh, horrors!!
:)

phatichar said...

shub: yep... :)

Prerona said...

there are people who i felt in awe of in that way then gotto know them better and felt they are so pseudo ... but still when i see them doing their thing again ... the ld magic creeps up

Kahini said...

Ah, charisma. But when it's genuine, it really shines through.

Anonymous said...

you are right. and then again like Ricer said- sometimes it works like. u feel left out and in the wrong lane. u check theirs and find, hey! its really no different. but then back to your own, you re-think. pretty confusing i would say :)

but then like Kahini said - true charisma does shine through.

Parna

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phatichar said...

parna: yeah...real charisma is something different altogether..

phatichar said...

kahini: couldn't agree with u more.. :)