Friday, July 08, 2005

friend, philosopher, guide...

The mentor-disciple relationship has always held me in awe. It's a sensitive bond, according to me. And it has to be handled really well in order to make it fulfilling to both. In countless movies this has been portrayed as a sub-plot and it indeed makes for a great sub-plot. The various angles to this relationship makes it even more intriguing. There's a difference between the conventional 'teacher-student' relationship and this one. A mentor could be anybody, from any walk of life. It's from the very nature of such a relationship that great careers are built, or a great person emerges. And it all depends on how the mentor guides his protege. Down the line, an emotional bonding also happens, but a true mentor knows when to detach, when to let go. It's like teaching a kid how to peddle his bicycle for the first time. You're behind him, holding the bike and somewhere along the way, you've to let go in order for the kid to really appreciate and feel the sense of control over himself. My dad would do it, when I first started riding the bicycle, at 9 or 10. Even today, when I watch movies with this sub-plot, it gives me a weird high. You watch the rookie grow under the mentor's tutelage and then one day, it's time for the baton to be passed on. And that whole journey of learning and coming of age is what inspires. And the good thing about mentorship is, it needn't be specific to any profession, it could be about the ropes of life. Some great movies in my opinion:

*Scent of a woman
*Training Day
*Donnie Brasco
*Finding Forrestor
*Choti si baat
*Karate Kid
*Million Dollar Baby
*The Professional
*The Untouchables
*Colors
*The Man without a face

There are many more, I'm sure, but I remember only these...

10 comments:

d4u said...
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d4u said...

Or mentor could be life itself:-) The movie I can remember here is Cast Away!!

n.g. said...

scent of a woman is my all time favourite film.

col slade: you dont wanna die
charlie simms: neither do you
slade: give me one reason
simms: ill give you two - you dance the tango and drive a ferrari better than anyone ive ever seen.

phatichar said...

nish: :)

d4u: yeah...life is a great mentor, no doubts.. :)

manuscrypts said...

psst psst.... 'pedal', u mean... u shdnt be teaching kids to peddle bicycles!!

phatichar said...

manuscrypts: thanx prof...

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aks said...

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phatichar said...

Hmmm, I should, now that you mentioned...thanks :)